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Recentemente me deparei com um comercial do Axe falando sobre como o machismo interfere na vida dos homens. Achei a ideia genial e necessária, já que vivemos em um mundo machista que massacra tanto homens quanto mulheres, mas os homens não têm coragem de colocar a boca no trombone e sofrem calados, vítimas deles mesmos.

De uns tempos pra cá temos acompanhado o crescimento do movimento feminista, o que é algo maravilhoso. A igualdade de gênero precisa e deve ser cada vez mais discutida, pregada e, principalmente, praticada. Há quem se contraponha, reclame, esperneie e acredite piamente que o feminismo é radicalismo por parte das mulheres e massacrante para os homens. Porém, somente quem não conhece de fato as necessidades do movimento e ainda não parou para fazer ao menos uma simples reflexão, acaba por condená-lo.

O feminismo não coloca a mulher em posição de vantagem sobre os homens, pelo contrário: reivindica respeito à igualdade de direitos, à conquista da liberdade pelo sexo feminino, liberdade essa necessária, que deveria ser um direito natural, porém, negada durante toda a história da humanidade. Mas será que é só às mulheres que o feminismo beneficia?

Em contraponto, temos o machismo, que tem a mulher como ser inferior e pré-determina quem está no comando – os homens, no caso. Porém, muita gente não se dá conta de que esse mesmo machismo que oprime as mulheres, acaba fazendo o mesmo também com os homens, porque define quem pode fazer o quê, atribuindo regras e funções aos gêneros e privando a nós, seres humanos, do nosso direito de sermos quem realmente somos, da maneira que queremos.

Assim, o machismo nos prejudica sim, e muito. Querem saber como? Ah, tem muitas maneiras. Inclusive eu mesmo tenho sofrido certa perseguição por causa disso. Porque homem que é homem não usa essa ou aquela peça de roupa. Usei croped em uma campanha e fui recriminado. Homem que é homem não usa calça colada, não se depila, não pode ser vaidoso. E você fica se perguntando a origem dessa trogloditagem toda, porque olha, não vejo sentido em nada que exista apenas com a função de limitar os outros. Porém, muita gente vive de pregar justamente isso. Mais um motivo para louvarmos a iniciativa do Axe.

Homens, esqueçam o machismo. Passamos a vida nos reprimindo, engolindo o choro, tendo que ser fortes, bons de briga, dominadores, namoradores, conquistadores baratos, durões, independentes, seguros e tudo o que a sociedade espera de nós. E o que ganhamos em troca? Sinceramente, nada. Nenhuma vantagem, nenhum benefício, nenhum mérito além de um monte de gente machista nos presenteando com elogios que cá entre nós, não servem para nada.

Obrigado por me entender, Axe. Obrigado por trazer à tona questionamentos tão úteis e necessários. Prefiro mil vezes o direito de chorar quando sentir vontade, de expressar medo, insegurança, de falar sobre o que eu sinto, de gostar de me vestir diferente, de não fazer o estilo machão, de não fazer sexo só por fazer, de não acumular mulheres apenas para prestar contas com a sociedade e poder sim, cuidar da minha aparência. Quero poder ser eu mesmo, sempre, na essência. Eu sou homem e quero igualdade de gênero. Quero ser livre, pra valer. E tudo o que o machismo não me permitiu até hoje, me desculpem, mas irei fazer.

 

Abraços!

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26 opinaram sobre “Machismo contra os homens”.

  1. Diamantes Lingerie

    29 de maio de 2017

    Nossa, que texto maravilhoso.
    Bem verdade que os homens tem esse preconceito com eles mesmos, e não entendo bem isso.
    É uma questão de quebrar padrões e ser feliz do jeito que você quer.

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  2. Daniele Serrano

    30 de maio de 2017

    Adorei seu texto!
    Bjos

  3. Luciano

    30 de maio de 2017

    Não vi a campanha da Axe ainda, mas realmente é um tapa na cara da sociedade preconceituosa, que julga o próximo, mas tem vergonha de olhar pros seus próprios defeitos.
    Amei esse texto, amigo, e essa reflexão foi maravilhosa mesmooo!!

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  4. Franciele

    31 de maio de 2017

    Você sempre arrasa nos posts de reflexão! Parabéns.

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  5. Laryssa Machado

    1 de junho de 2017

    Oii Daniel, que texto ótimo. Eu nunca tinha pensando nesse lado do machismo, em ele ser prejudicial para o próprio homem, e faz muito sentido. Só teremos um mundo melhor, justo e com igualdade quando o machismo acabar, e para isso é necessário que todos, principalmente as mulheres lutando por igualdade, façam a sua parte.

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  6. Plasticaholic

    4 de junho de 2017

    Seus posts “pensantes” sempre são muito bons!
    O feminismo na essência realmente é algo muito válido. Mas a forma que se tem lutado , no geral, acaba tirando toda a razão do movimento. Infelizmente, o feminismo é todo distorcido.
    Quanto ao machismo, também concordamos porque as pessoas/sociedade querem impor TUDO!
    E desde que não prejudique o outro, nós podemos realmente ser livres , ou pelo menos devíamos poder.

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