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Por Daniel Saraiva em 22 de fevereiro de 2017
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Homem que é home não pode… E assim começam muitas histórias de machismo, preconceito e intolerância. Vivemos em uma sociedade machista, isso é fato. E por mais que tenhamos avançado em alguns pontos, ainda é complicado para um homem optar pela vaidade quando ela não envolve músculos bem trabalhados ou estilo bad boy. A masculinidade está quase sempre associada ao homem barbado, malhado, de terno, camisa gola polo ou bermuda. Mas claro, ser homem é muito mais do que isso.

Eu sempre gostei de me vestir diferente. Sempre me senti bem assim. E isso muitas vezes me causou alguns problemas, a maioria deles relacionada ao preconceito, seja da família, dos amigos ou até mesmo de desconhecidos que chegaram a me olhar com ar de bizarrice. Porém, nunca me intimidei. Pelo contrário, sempre procurei cada vez mais peças diferenciadas, que tivessem a ver com a minha personalidade e não me fizessem sentir mais um na multidão. Não que eu queira ser mais ou melhor do que ninguém, pelo contrário. Essa postura na verdade me fez incentivar outras pessoas a também vestirem o que querem, em especial o público masculino. Sim, porque as mulheres, de certa forma, já possuem alguma liberdade em relação à vaidade, à beleza, às cores e estilos. Homem, infelizmente, ainda não. Uma mulher, por exemplo, pode sair por aí usando calça e se sentir feliz da vida, inclusive, se ela quiser, a calça pode lhe sair um item super sexy. Agora imaginem o contrário – um homem andando por aí de saia. Já existe, não é? Porém, isso quase não é aceito, embora a aceitação não seja lá o principal, até porque ninguém tem nada a ver com o que os outros usam ou deixam de usar. Mas gostando ou não você tem que respeitar.

Segundo a nossa sociedade, há algumas regras que devem ser seguidas à risca pelos machos alfa em questão: não tirar a sobrancelha, não se depilar, não usar calça skinny, não usar maquiagem, não usar peças do guarda-roupa feminino, não… Olha, são muitas, e se eu for listar todas precisaremos de um outro post só para destacá-las. Porém, já dá para se ter uma noção de que aquilo que define a nossa masculinidade está ligado a comportamentos enraizados em nossa sociedade desde uma época em que moda era um assunto longe de merecer ser discutido. E isso, claro, é muito injusto conosco, homens do ano XVII do século XXI.

E vocês sabem quem são nossos maiores inimigos? Nós mesmos, claro. Tenho a impressão de que o homem por si já nasce preconceituoso – com os outros e com ele mesmo. Mas claro, a culpa não é só nossa. Somos criados ouvindo a velha e cansada frase “homem que é homem não pode” e lá vem aquela lista de coisas que mencionei ali em cima, inclusive, há um quesito não mencionado, mas bem tradicional: o choro. Então, se você também já se sentiu oprimido, não precisa mais engolir o choro. Chegou a hora de nos expressarmos como bem quisermos e a maneira como nos vestimos é uma boa opção maneira para se começar.

Bom, preciso dizer que fácil não é. Você precisa, antes de tudo, vencer seus próprios medos, receios e preconceitos. Precisa dizer a si mesmo que você pode e passar a ter a consciência de que se você quiser mesmo que as coisas sejam diferentes, é bom começar a agir diferente. Pra que a sociedade mude alguém precisa começar. Muitos já começaram, mas quem os acompanhará? Quem terá a coragem de deixar de lado o macho man interior para finalmente se tornar um homem livre? Bom, que você não faça por modinha, mas pelo real significado da moda: de que ser você mesmo é a melhor maneira de expressão. E que você se sinta bem sendo vaidoso, diferente ou até mesmo seguindo a multidão.

Abraços!

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